If there’s one thing that’s always been a fixture in the Vietnamese community, it has got to be the One Month Celebration. Every baby gets to have this event, obviously, one month after they’re born. Not only is it a time to celebrate the baby’s birth and actually see the baby, this is when people give gifts. Traditional Vietnamese tend not to have Baby Showers, as is custom in America, because they’ve always done this event, which is kind of like the same thing – only after the baby is born, and with money.
Yes, Viets prefer giving and receiving money, because that’s just how we roll.
Anyways, the basics of it is this, at least from a Buddhist’s perspective, which is what I grew up in (although we’re raising our family as Atheists):
- A roasted pig is ordered, eggs are boiled and dyed red (for good luck), rice is cooked, fruits and other snacks are bought, and a certain soup is made
- All of that is prepared and placed together at an alter along with some incense as an offering to the Buddhist gods to watch over the baby, keeping it safe and in good health
- The baby also has to be there
- After the incense finally burns out, you can clear away all the food and serve it up for everyone to eat and enjoy
Next, is the party which doesn’t have any rules so no worries there.
The big thing though is everyone gives the parents money in those lucky Red Envelopes and the parents basically show off the baby.
Since it is Vietnamese tradition to perform a “one month in-house sort of cleansing ritual” where you and the baby are basically on lockdown for the entire month, no one usually sees the baby until this event. Don’t know what that is?! Well, I’ll be doing a post about that particular ritual very soon!
Overall, it’s a fairly simple ritual and a very fun event. My mom is very traditional and makes sure she does all these things right and since this is how I grew up, I can’t wait to pass on this tradition when my kids start having kids.
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